What Matters Most

Some have called this movie a "modern day Romeo and Juliet" tale. That might be a bit of a stretch, but there are some similarities. Chad Allen plays a H.S.Senior, Lucas, whose well-off father has some real anger management issues. Allen has a lifelong friend, Heather, who lives with her divorced mother and together they run a busy diner. Lucas' parents have all but arranged a marriage for him with to a family of their choosing, one of acceptable social status. Needles to say, the star- crossed lovers, Lucas and Heather, realize they are in love and want to marry. You may guess where things go from there. Friction would be putting it mildly. There is a pretty good, surprise ending which makes the rest of the movie worth the time. One problem I had with the movie is that, in the beginning, the main character, Lucas, is rather "hard to like". It becomes clear, later, that his mood and attitude are due to his home situation. Getting past that, you start to pull for the young lovers who are rowing up-stream all the way. There is a near tragedy which makes for an interesting sub-plot. For those who like romance stories with a satisfying ending, What Matters Most works. This movie has just a little cussing by the high-school boys and the only skin shown are the shirtless H.S. basketball players as they banter in the locker room.

This is a movie that touches your heart as well as your mind. As I was watching this movie I couldn't help but think how much time we waste looking at the world through our own personal tunnel. That the things that truly matter, which are there all around us, seem to get lost. From things as simple as the smile on the faces of the people we love, to seeing the sadness in their eyes, to being able to really listen. Because in the end what really matters most, is the life and love we share, and the love we leave behind. I highly recommend this film.

A domineering father tries to prevent his son from being with his true love with disastrous consequences. Overcoming prejudice and learning "what matters most" is the central theme. Plus a really unique surprise ending made for an overall good movie...

With the presence of Chad Allen, this B movie is raised to a higher level. I saw this actor perform on stage several years back and thought then he was very good. I have seen him lately in several films involving being a gay detective. But this one, made in 2001, and directed by Jane Cusumano, is exceptional. He brings touching honesty of a young man who is dominated by his father and kept from being his own identity. Chad gives a heartwarming and convincing performance. It's a shame that his admittance of being gay interferes with his work. Yet his courage to continue to work is commendable. Such a loss that some audiences can't look beyond the tabloids and judge an actor's work on his abilities and not his private life. Let us not forget John Barrymore's private life and yet he's considered one of the great actors of our time. Go figure.

Allen is backed with Polly Cole as his young girlfriend. And she fits perfectly with him on the acting side. They both seem to bring forth the right touch of emotions in the situation and they work well together. Also Marshall R. Teaque and Gretchen German as his parents gave terrific performances. Teague's scenes with Allen were electric. Tamara Clutterbuck plays the girls mother and does a wonderful job as well. All the actors were well chosen. I can't recommend this film highly enough.

I taped this movie from Lifetime and my wife and I watched this movie together on December 19, 2005. It was good to see two good actors we were familiar with, Chad Allen and Marshall Teague giving believable performances to difficult parts. As a former counselor in one of my jobs prior to retirement, I met young people in love with parents of one or both not approving. My wife's parents did not approve of me at first. With this background we could feel the emotions of the two young people in love. The accident, the period of recovery, all the way to the conclusion kept us both glued to the TV set until the end although we felt some of it toward the end was contrived but we enjoyed the ending. We recommend the movie to anyone whose hearts go out to others in time of need.