Carmen & Bolude

Carmen and Bolude is a fun movie but carries a strong message. There are engaging characters and especially strong female leads. There are lots of laugh out loud moments and some tears. All the feels in one digestible package with some lingering messages to think about.

Those lingering messages are explored around cross cultural relationships and identity in an adventure that includes New York, Sydney and some spectacular NSW sites. The "family dinner" scene is one many will relate too with a level of discomfort that is tangible, squirmy but cleverly, funny. Everyone who has ever felt unseen or not quite sure of who they were will identify.

This film was Co Written by the two main female Actors playing the roles of Carmen & Bolude respectively. Anyone will understand that when you have two writers that are also the Leads, they will often want to have an equal amount of screen time and a comparable arc that each one goes through. In my opinion this is where films like this can fall down. To the audience it can feel like there's two different films playing. However, there are some funny moments throughout.

Given the material to work with, I think Director Maria Isabel Delaossa did an amazing job and has proven herself to be fine Director of Drama and Comedy.

Can't wait to see what she does next!

Still thinking about this movie now, weeks after I watched it.

Did I love it because I have always struggled with my identity a bit? Did I love it because my friend co-created it?

I loved it because it's just a really great, complex movie that gets into hard topics with a tonne of humour, lovable characters, great locations and a sense of warmth that wraps around you like your favourite old jumper - full of memories and impossible to live without.

What really stayed with me was how effortlessly the film moved between laugh-out-loud absurdity and these beautifully vulnerable moments. It never felt preachy, never tried to teach you anything outright - but somehow you left feeling a little more open, a little more seen.

Carmen and Bolude's friendship is the kind of movie relationship I love: messy, hilarious and real. There's something so powerful about seeing two women - each from wildly different cultural backgrounds - lean into each other's chaos.

And let's talk about the '100 Welcomes' moment. What could have easily become a gimmick turns out to be one of the most joyful sequences I've seen on screen. Not just because it's heartwarming, but because it shows what belonging can look like - strange, stitched-together, sometimes awkward but fully human.

I also think this is the kind of story that will land somewhere inside anyone who's ever felt between places, between expectations or between versions of themselves.

More like this, please. Xx.

It is an amazing movie, addressing the societal issues we face but delivering it in an easy to digest manner.

While dealing with important issues, the use of comic relief to lighten the mood is a welcome development.

The movie also made me be in all my feels as the actors made me feel what they felt. Laughing at the funny moments and crying too when the actors had to deal deep and personal issues.

I love how inclusive and intentional they were to ensure the authenticity of the characters and portrayal of the cultures represented in the movie.

It is such an entertaining and informative movie.

This film captures a search for identity under the guise of getting married. The lead characters find themselves, and acceptance, while following a trail of love and hope and new beginnings.

Insights are provided by random people from different cultural backgrounds who find themselves and provide guidance for knowing yourself.

Love, friendship, and family are woven together and provide a rich backdrop for acceptance. Knowing who you are and who you want to be are so wrapped up in cultural differences which end up demonstrating the similarities.

Such a beautiful and heartfelt movie, with laughs, tears, and everything in between.