Biografia

He currently lives in London with his wife, Charlotte, and their two young sons - Samuel (b. September 2004) and Saul (b. September 2006).

He is the only son of Gilbert de Botton and Jacqueline Burgauer (his parents were married in 1962 and divorced in 1988 - his father married Janet Wolfson in 1990). He also has one sister named Miel. His father passed away from a heart attack in 2000.

He was born in Switzerland, but grew up primarily in England. As a result, he speaks three languages: English, French and German.

His deepest literary influences include Nicholson Baker, Julian Barnes, Roland Barthes and Milan Kundera.

His favourite philosophers are Epicurus, Montaigne, Nietzsche, Plato, Schopenhauer, Seneca and Socrates.

I was so slow at school I was thought to be the family idiot. I don't remember any praise or encouragement. I hope not to repeat that pattern with Samuel. My only real worry is that he will turn out to be a cheerful rugby player and we will have nothing to talk about.

I tend to get upset by bad reviews, but generally try to separate out what I think is fair from what is unfair. The most upsetting reviews are not necessarily the nastiest, but the most accurate. Nothing hurts quite like the truth.

I have lots of fears as a writer - that what I write is not good enough. A huge fear, but mostly, what I write and think about first time is rather poor and has to be improved upon. I am not sure if any writer is ever satisfied first time around, but I am certainly not. So this demands nerves of steel - one has to think: "It is terrible now, but hopefully one day it can be good." Writing demands faith.

Music means a lot to me. I am moved, on the one hand, by the cantatas of Bach and, on the other hand, I am drawn mostly to modern female vocalists, in particular, Sinead O'Connor and Natalie Merchant. Like most writers, I wish I could have been a musician.

I confess not to be very interested, myself, in "popularising" philosophy. I am keen, though, to look at certain ideas that have appeared in philosophy, as well as in history, art, science, etc, and weave my own reflections in with them.