Honig im Kopf

I would like to talk about two characters and the way their attitude is being dangerously idealized in the movie:

First of all, Tilda, the small child almost takes over the responsibility of her parents, taking her grandfather to a trip abroad. She witnesses how her grandpa slowly loses the capability of leading his own life and this is simply not something that a child can handle psychologically. For a child to carry such parental responsibilities is being referred to as a severe trauma in psychology and it shouldn't be idealized in a movie. Moreover, when she takes off with her grandpa, interestingly no one ever wonders where she may be and what may happen to them. So instead of being deeply worried for her, Niko and Sarah brush up their sex life. Really?!

Secondly, Sarah, Niko's wife is portrayed as a very unpleasant character and in the movie, this is tied to the fact that she doesn't want her husband's father to live with them. At the end, where the character transforms into an ideal (!) woman, she quits her job to look after Amandus and to spend more time with her daughter. This is nothing but a gender stereotype being reinforced in a very emotionally abusive manner. Again, such experiences have caused and are causing many women in the world to have traumatic experiences when it comes to having a family and wanting to realize themselves.

I was very disappointed to see so many gender stereotypes being reinforced in the movie. The people of this world have endured enough traumas and they should not be idealized in any way, let alone in a movie by Til Schweiger that is guaranteed to reach millions of people.

The best about this German movie who was one of the biggest hits in 2014 are some of the performances. I always thought Hallervorden to be a good actor even in his often unfunny 70ies and 80ies comedies. Jeanette Hain is also good as the antagonist. Schweiger himself has made worse and better movies in the past. In the last years he became notorious for putting his friends and kids in his movies. Same here, but his daughter Emma is at least not as annoying as her elder sister Luna who also gets shoehorned in many of his movies. First off, the movie about a little girl and her grandfather, who has got Alzheimer disease, is just a bit too long. I think this movie could easily be 30 minutes shorter. In my opinion the movie shows quite good what Alzheimer does despite it is not in all details realistic. But Schweiger again ruins the portrayal of his main character by his crude style of humour. Here, for example, the main character Armandus is fond of grabbing tits or pees in the fridge. So you get wrongly the impression this may have not been a good man before he became demented.

Misses the point of telling the difficulties and tragic of dealing with Alzheimer's. The story is set to pull at heart-strings while providing eye-candy. And nothing of it works because of the cheesy and immature way this story is told. I think the fact that this movie was a success in Germany tells a lot about the German people and their perception of "entertainment" in combination with serious topics. There are so many ways to tell a story about Alzheimer's and the people who have to deal with it, this is not one of them. This was all about packing as many known faces of Germany's movie industries into one and at the same time forcing the non-existent "talents" of Schweiger's daughter down the throats of the viewers. I feel very sorry for everyone who personally knows about the trauma of Alzheimer's disease and watched this movie in good hopes of watching something to relate to.

Sorry, Til Schweiger - total am Ziel vorbei geschossen, zumindest für jedes Publikum ausserhalb Deutschlands.

What might look overdone at times to me. Is a beautiful depiction of what. It feels like to care for an aging family member.

Maybe for some people this movie seems overdone or is not easy to relate to, but I was spending lots and lots of time as a young man with my grandma when her memory and worldly abilities started to fade, and this movie hits home.

It's not trying to be educational first or change the world but rather display an aspect of life that we almost all go through in one way or another in a touching and entertaining way.

I enjoyed the choice of actors as well as the visual intensity, which made the movie more "real" for me, as supposed to just looking realistic.

Everyone have to see this wonderful movie. I was in cinemas 4times for this movie and can't get enough from it. It is a wonderful story and so many people fall in love with this movie and try now to understand there parents or grandparents better, even if they had this illness. The absolutely best movie of Til Schweiger and especially from his wonderful young daughter Emma who will be a great worldwide actress soon, she is 12 years old and played so wonderful :) And the best role is the role from the grandparent Amandus, brilliant play from Dieter Hallervorden. I love all of this movie - you really have to see it !!! I hope that this movie get a lot of prices soon, the German crowd fall in love with it :)