The Love You Give Me

I really wanted to like this but sorry it reiterates a very sexist rhetoric that the mum wasn't doing enough for the kid before the father came along ( despite her having a great relationship with him, giving him everything he needed and working in her great career being successful too) He spent half of the show criticizing her house, her cooking, her decisions about the kid and trying very toxic blackmail buying him toys and playing with him to antagonize them. I know it's supposed to be funny and joking but it's very cringe to me and a huge red flag.

I honestly cant believe this is written by the same writer as Remembrance of things past, what happened???

The show keeps belittling women and mentioning how they are inferior to men in the workforce and they need men to progress and NOT ONCE this is corrected or contradicted by anyone.

It also baffles me the fact that the ML literally imposes his presence into the FL's life and does it literally by force. Then the dialogue is basically that she was lacking, she didn't do enough and the kid was never as happy as he is with the new found dad.

I mean I come from a family where both parents were loving and present but that's not the case for everyone and it saddens me that they are stating a kid cant be happy or full filled with only one parent. Mostly where the FL here has an amazing support system with awesome friends supporting and caring for her and her child.

The secondary and thir storylines with the 2nd Fl and the 2nd ML are quite boring and repetitive.

Overall, lighthearted and fluffy and the highlights of the show are the scenes were the kid is being witty and acting all grown up, he is such a natural actor !

I don't agree with the prior review so I guess we'll have to agree to disagree!! I think this drama reflects a multitude of issues and rather than just key in on one, there're are also others addressed, specifically the issue in workplaces like sexual harassment on the job (which in some instances are still prevalent even though well hidden) & the message being that it shouldn't just be allowed and victims should be strong and stand up for themselves! It also brings awareness of heart/health conditions! Along with that is a very touching love story with added storylines and every instance was well acted with emotion that had our group in tears by the last episode! There's love, angst, humor, anger, sadness...and all of the gamut of emotions are very well acted by the cast!

I absolutely adore the 2 main lead actors!! Their chemistry is so wonderful and believable, as if they are truly a real life couple!! Great drama and I really really hope to see these 2 is many more dramas! Fell in love with their acting in Once We Get Married (awesome) and now this wonderful drama!! Now our group are huge fans of these two...we'll be watching to see their next drama!

The little actor that plays QuanQuan is adorable and one to watch as an actor as he gets older! He does such a good job now...can't wait till he grows up & see how good he'll be then!!

Everyone in this show did really well - casting director, much respect!! Very well cast! 👏👏👏

Awesome powerful cutie no words to describe both the lead they are fantabulous on their acting it's look real husband &wife and parents..I love you so much ziqi ur handsome very childish cutie.....so much of love for both the leads u both rocked I love you both..... missing u twooooo better do another drama I'm waiting watch u guys on another series with lots of love u both look like real parents how you took care of the child on both on&offscreen...killing..hero ur too cool I love ur acting man & ur bond with ur sister also very cute . Cindy cute sister. Quanquan cutie. Wang ywen cutie girl .

I gave this show one star and it's because of the little boy that plays the son. I was highly irritated with the female lead as she was very hypocritical throughout the show. I despise situations in which a mother feels justified in hiding the existence of the child from their dad. She lies to him over and over and defends herself, but anytime there's a misunderstanding she never listens to him, believe him or trust him. She would rather allow herself to be demeaned than reach out to her son's father for help. Rather than share her concerns with the dad, she tells the doctor. She confessed the entire situation to her friend and the doctor but forbade him from telling anyone. Every situation she thought only about herself and her pettiness with her son in asking who he loved more, when he asked about his dad, she tried to manipulate him emotionally and he called her out on being petty. It was poorly written overall to me but it's never ok to keep a child from their parent and lie about it over and over and justify yourself as though it's completely up to just one parent. The father can't make a baby on his own and neither can a mother so both have the right to know about the child and be able to be present in their lives if the parents aren't together. She's was too self righteous towards the male lead. The communication was poor among all the couples it's as the boy said, the adults couldn't just speak their minds instead of assuming the others could read their thoughts.