Ajouter une intrigue dans votre langueThis movie shows another side to spousal abuse that not too many people thought is possible--the husband being abused and the wife the abuser.This movie shows another side to spousal abuse that not too many people thought is possible--the husband being abused and the wife the abuser.This movie shows another side to spousal abuse that not too many people thought is possible--the husband being abused and the wife the abuser.
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Hi, PLEASE TRY TO HELP!!! I have spent hours looking for a way to find a copy of this important movie. However, no matter where I have looked there has been no way to locate the origin and/or place where I could turn to find a copy of: "Men Don't Tell" with Peter Straus. Apparently the made-for-TV movie has been shown several times on TV, but can't be found in any Vedio store (even big ones). I'm looking to purchase a copy.
Can anyone inform me how/where to find it?
Thanks to all who try.
Sincerely, Fred GOLFFRED@AOL.com
Can anyone inform me how/where to find it?
Thanks to all who try.
Sincerely, Fred GOLFFRED@AOL.com
I have not been able to see this movie all the way through because I never know when it's showing on TV. Also, I have to be careful not to draw attention to my search for it because I don't know how my wife would take it. The subject matter is seriously personal and there has never been any other movie addressing it, that I'm aware of. My wife has a violent temper that I did not find out about until after we were married. After 25 years of marriage she is finally mellowing out but she refuses to discuss her abusive actions nor to seek professional help. I have done all that I can to keep our children from being emotionally ruined and they are able to discuss it now that they are older.
I am looking for 2 copies of the movie on DVD. Apparently, CBS first aired it in 1993 but does not own it. So, they cannot copy it.
I'm trying to figure out who owns it and can provide copies.
I can use some help.
I am looking for 2 copies of the movie on DVD. Apparently, CBS first aired it in 1993 but does not own it. So, they cannot copy it.
I'm trying to figure out who owns it and can provide copies.
I can use some help.
I love to watch violence just like anyone else who is a desentized freak of my generation. I thought this movie was going to like any other domestic abuse shocker, cept it was about a GUY!, i realized after the first half hour that this was as a real concern as female abuse and that it was real, it broke some mental barriers and also showed how even after the struggle and shocking abuse this man(a 9-5er)can also heal.
It was able to show reality, sadness and pain. It was a real heart tugger
It was able to show reality, sadness and pain. It was a real heart tugger
The first time I saw the movie was during the breakup of my marriage. I only got to see part of it as I could feel what he was going through as I did the same... I was in love and went through hell for 7 years because of the love I had for my wife.
I had 2 children that ended up in her care after I was thrown out and 10 years later they now live with me and understand... As they've been thrown out too because of her drinking, at the ages of 17 and 14.
I hope I can still make it up to them for not being able to prove it all in the 10 year custody battle.
I know... I didn't want to 'tell' either...
I was ashamed to let anyone know the control she had over me.
I had 2 children that ended up in her care after I was thrown out and 10 years later they now live with me and understand... As they've been thrown out too because of her drinking, at the ages of 17 and 14.
I hope I can still make it up to them for not being able to prove it all in the 10 year custody battle.
I know... I didn't want to 'tell' either...
I was ashamed to let anyone know the control she had over me.
OK, so this is a made-for-TV movie, so don't go expecting Ocar-winning performances..... Adopt that outlook and this film will have you blown over!! For such an unusual subject matter as a beaten husband, it takes a very good actor to play that role convincingly. The character must be portrayed not as a cowering weakling, nor an angry, affronted paragon of masculinity... But as a normal, real man. There is only ever one REAL man in the movie industry and he's right here in the lead role - Peter Strauss.
By Real Man, I do mean that he responds as most real men would when suddenly battered by the one person they love beyond all else... Out of love. People who love stay with their beloved, as long as they can and you can feel every moment of angst in Strauss's performance. Even at the very end, you can tell he has nothing but absolute love for his wife and what he does is done because of that love.
This is my first film with Judith Light and several other cast members. Light's performance as a loving yet unhinged wife did come across as slightly over-the-top, but that just makes it necessarily dramatic and hammers home effectively the years of abuse in the 95 minutes such a production is limited to.
The supporting cast too deliver their roles well, but as with all such acting styles that find their way into TV movies, you have to watch closely to see the best of it as, just like in real life, it is very subtle.
For some reason, this film attracted a lot of negativity from certain womens groups. Perhaps because, like most people, they don't believe such a thing could ever be true and are just as shocked when they discover it is far more prevalent than anyone could imagine.
Conclusion: Another ABSOLUTE must see from the Strauss repertoire!!
By Real Man, I do mean that he responds as most real men would when suddenly battered by the one person they love beyond all else... Out of love. People who love stay with their beloved, as long as they can and you can feel every moment of angst in Strauss's performance. Even at the very end, you can tell he has nothing but absolute love for his wife and what he does is done because of that love.
This is my first film with Judith Light and several other cast members. Light's performance as a loving yet unhinged wife did come across as slightly over-the-top, but that just makes it necessarily dramatic and hammers home effectively the years of abuse in the 95 minutes such a production is limited to.
The supporting cast too deliver their roles well, but as with all such acting styles that find their way into TV movies, you have to watch closely to see the best of it as, just like in real life, it is very subtle.
For some reason, this film attracted a lot of negativity from certain womens groups. Perhaps because, like most people, they don't believe such a thing could ever be true and are just as shocked when they discover it is far more prevalent than anyone could imagine.
Conclusion: Another ABSOLUTE must see from the Strauss repertoire!!
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- AnecdotesIs based on a true story.
- GaffesLaurie's hair changes from long to short & back again from scene to scene.
- Citations
[last lines]
Laura MacAffrey: Ed, what are you going to tell everyone - about why we're splitting?
Ed MacAffrey: [after a long pause] The truth.
- ConnexionsFeatured in The 51st Annual Golden Globe Awards (1994)
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- Date de sortie
- Pays d’origine
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- Aussi connu sous le nom de
- Les silences d'un homme
- Lieux de tournage
- Wilmington, Los Angeles, Californie, États-Unis(Shipyard scene)
- Sociétés de production
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- Durée1 heure 35 minutes
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- Rapport de forme
- 1.78 : 1
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By what name was Men Don't Tell (1993) officially released in Canada in English?
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