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There is so much wrong with this movie, I could be here a week typing this. But one of the most glaring missteps (for lack of a stronger word) is the homophobic element surrounding the character of Todd. Portrayed as "crazy," "weird" and "scary" the film takes the gay stereotype of over 30 years ago and resurrects it. It also makes sure to add, to comedic effect, the "horror" of a gay man trying to seduce a straight man. Then, add in a dash of the "looney grandmother" who spouts homophobic slurs for laughs. What this film does to fuel ignorance and intolerance towards gays and lesbians is no laughing matter.

Finally, a movie about gay men that shows us as the ordinary guys most of us really are. For once I wasn't cringing at any stereotypical moments or characters that seem to be in every previous gay-themed movie. I found myself sitting in my seat crying when the movie was over, trying to stifle the audible sobs that wanted to come out.

I was in tears because this movie reminded me of the wonderful friends I've had, and have, in my life. Friends from the past, friends in the present. Some friends I've lost touch with because of death, or just the passing of time, and the changing paths of our lives. This movie reminded me of these friends with love. And that is a reminder we can all use, whether we're gay or straight.