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I was pleasantly surprised by The Boyfriend. Not being in the mood to read subtitles, I opted for the English dubbed version and thoroughly enjoyed the first episode.

Past dating shows featuring gay men have been absolute train wrecks. Dating shows in general are ridiculous. Getting engaged sight unseen. 30 women dating one man. Manufactured villains. You know the deal.

This presents a more simple and realistic scenario. Six gay men looking for love and connection share a house together. In addition, they will run a coffee truck together as a way to increase their bond. They even come up with a fabulous name for it (with the help of A. I. but still.)

The men seem both kind and refreshingly sincere in their quest and I found myself rooting for them right away. The first night, each sends an anonymous note to someone who made a strong first impression on them. Their anxiousness in writing the note and subsequent desire to receive one was palpable.

There is a panel of 5 people who watch and comment on the actions of the unsuspecting young men. Some comments sincere, others snarky. This was a bit jarring as it gave me a "Truman Show" kind of vibe.

Still, after 1 episode I'm invested in these six men and hope they find what they are looking for. As I write this, there is only 1 other review so I'm hoping/encouraging more people give this show a chance. Regardless of sexual preference there is a lot to relate to.

In an age dominated by high-drama dating shows, Netflix's The Boyfriend offers a refreshing alternative, valuing genuine romance over superficial allure. This groundbreaking Japanese series, featuring gay and bisexual men, is a significant stride in normalizing queer relationships in a country where same-sex marriage remains unrecognized. Unlike many other dating shows, The Boyfriend focuses on authenticity and connection.

Contestants, chosen for their sincere quest for love, navigate their emotions in a serene setting. Instead of engaging in sensational challenges, they collaboratively run a coffee van, fostering deeper bonds. Personal anecdotes reveal their vulnerabilities, making their journey relatable and heartfelt.

The Boyfriend stands out for its sincere portrayal of romance, emphasizing the beauty of real connections over contrived drama. It's a compelling and poignant series that redefines the dating show genre, providing a much-needed antidote to the superficiality of typical reality TV.

"The Boyfriend" marks a significant milestone as Japan's first same-sex reality show, bringing a refreshing and progressive narrative to the forefront of mainstream media. This groundbreaking series follows a group of single men as they navigate the complex landscape of romance and relationships during an unforgettable summer. With its innovative approach and heartfelt storytelling, "The Boyfriend" has captivated audiences and critics alike, earning a perfect score of 10 out of 10 on IMDb.

--- > Diverse Cast and Authentic Representation

One of the most striking aspects of "The Boyfriend" is its diverse and authentic cast. Each participant brings a unique background, personality, and perspective, enriching the show with a variety of stories and experiences. This diversity not only enhances the relatability of the series but also provides viewers with a more comprehensive understanding of the LGBTQ+ community in Japan. The show's commitment to authentic representation helps break down stereotypes and fosters a deeper sense of empathy and acceptance among its audience.

---> Emotional Depth and Real Connections

"The Boyfriend" excels in capturing the emotional depth and genuine connections that develop between the participants. The show doesn't shy away from the complexities and challenges of same-sex relationships, presenting them with sensitivity and nuance. The participants' interactions are marked by raw honesty and vulnerability, allowing viewers to witness the real emotions that come with love, heartbreak, and self-discovery. This emotional depth resonates with audiences, making the series not just entertaining but profoundly moving.

---> Stunning Cinematography and Scenic Locations

Set against the picturesque backdrop of Japan's beautiful landscapes, "The Boyfriend" offers stunning cinematography that enhances the viewing experience. The show takes full advantage of its scenic locations, from serene beaches to vibrant cityscapes, creating a visually captivating atmosphere. The picturesque settings not only serve as a beautiful canvas for the unfolding drama but also symbolize the fresh and liberating journey of love and self-acceptance that the participants embark on.

---> Thoughtful Storytelling and Pacing

The storytelling in "The Boyfriend" is meticulously crafted, balancing moments of joy, tension, and introspection. Each episode is thoughtfully paced, allowing the relationships to develop organically without feeling rushed. The narrative arc is compelling, with each participant's journey adding a new layer of intrigue and emotional resonance. The show's ability to maintain a consistent and engaging storyline is a testament to its well-executed production and direction.

---> Social Impact and Cultural Significance

"The Boyfriend" holds immense cultural significance as it challenges traditional norms and promotes inclusivity in Japanese society. By providing a platform for same-sex relationships to be openly discussed and celebrated, the show plays a pivotal role in normalizing LGBTQ+ love stories in mainstream media. Its success on IMDb reflects a growing acceptance and appreciation for diverse narratives, signaling a positive shift towards greater representation and equality.

---> Memorable Moments and Unforgettable Characters

The series is peppered with memorable moments that leave a lasting impression on viewers. Whether it's a heartfelt confession, a tender kiss, or a tearful goodbye, these moments are beautifully captured and leave a lasting impact. The characters themselves are unforgettable, each leaving an indelible mark with their unique stories and personalities. Their journeys of love, self-acceptance, and personal growth resonate deeply, making "The Boyfriend" a truly unforgettable viewing experience.

--> Conclusion

In conclusion, "The Boyfriend" is a trailblazing reality show that beautifully captures the essence of love, diversity, and acceptance. Its perfect score on IMDb is a testament to its exceptional quality, heartfelt storytelling, and cultural significance. By bringing same-sex relationships into the spotlight with authenticity and grace, the show not only entertains but also educates and inspires. "The Boyfriend" is a must-watch for anyone seeking a powerful and poignant exploration of love in all its forms, and it stands as a landmark achievement in the realm of reality television.

I think this is the first mainstream same-sex dating reality series in Japan. The overall vibe is quite calm, heartwarming and delightful. No "Bammm Bamm Bamm" sounds, no ten super-cut, no dramatic "I will do whatever horrible thing to win this.." cliché.

The cast consists of clean-cut and polite individuals. The show seems to focus on friendship, self-improvement, and romance. Drama does occur occasionally to make things interesting.

The show follows the men's daily lives, including cooking, hanging out, and occasional dates. Sex is rarely discussed, although there's a sexual undertone to some scenes. The show's emphasis on emotional connections and personal growth is a welcome theme.

Now, aside from all the wholesomeness, the pace is quite slow. Additionally, the "commentator" panel thingy is not something I'm used to.

OK, so this is another show that shouldn't be judged by Western standards.

To American eyes, a couple of things might take some getting used to. The pace is often slow, the dialogue seemingly banal, and the subtitling awkward. Having a panel of five outside commentators is sometimes helpful, but just as often it's irritating (because some of the commentators themselves were kind of irritating, sorry).

But the fact that a show like this got made at all is a huge sign of progress. As an old gay man who is waaaaay too jaded, it was also refreshing, and a wake-up call, to see young gay men actually wanting to get to know each other and talk, instead of just jumping into the sack. I can only hope that Japanese LGBTQ teenagers who see this show will find it comforting, and maybe a revelation.

And Ikuo? Honey, if you ever need a sugar daddy...call me. :-)