Love Is Blind: Habibi

Unbelievable cultural differences in this version of Love Is Blind Habibi. Only saw 2 episodes so far ( so not considering this a spoiler but a precursor for a messy season to come) I predict the first couple matched won't last - we will see. Let's just say the man was way too controlling by moving way too fast making a "claim" on "his" woman to the "bros" that he has known for exactly 1 day (RED FLAG!) and telling them to cancel their date (if she picks them). Then the other guy who also likes her backs down out of "loyalty" to his bro? The whole concept goes down the tubes immediately - this is not about making friends or "loyal bros" but finding the best love connection. Which brings to the next point-the girl he claims clearly tells him she loves to dance from the beginning and he tells her "I don't like that" right from the get-go (RedFlag!). Then he moves fast and proposes (RED FLAG!), so she lets him know this and she succumbs to his pushing w/o insisting to see HER other date pick first! One note abt the show is that despite all the different regions and backgrounds, everyone speaks great English with no noticeable accents and whoever taught them did a great job.

The bad reviews comes mostly from the ignorance of the culture. Traditionnal values seem to be the key word here. Specially for the men. The women too but they have obviously embraced the some of the modern life style with a suprising element for me: Seeing how the strong and independent women in the western world are, being more and more masculine, I thought that this was the main reason that made them so unacttractive (understand not wife material). Here, most of these women are strong and independent but are still very, charming, feminine and thus very attractive even if physically most of them were arevage or slighty below. The men are traditionnal, demanding and strict, I guess that's in their culture and it seems to be the norm. I really appreciated watching the interaction between the men and the women: they were honest, very affermative in the boundaries they set. No surprises, better communication, less deceptive tactics, less hidden intentions than in the previous seasons. Concerning the women some of them have fallen in the trap of feminism. There is a very high probability that Hajar, Asma, Safa, Karma and Nour will have to drop their delusionnal views and face reality. They "hit the wall" already and their best fertile years are behind them. Same for their attractiveness. The older you get, your chances of finding your significant half gets harder. I could be wrong but the stats are not in their favor. As for Dounia, she has a good chance of having a great life. I gave the show an eight because I enjoyed the cultural discovery.

I have watched every episode there is of Love is blind, from every country. I thought it would be interesting to see how different this would be. I have to say, that I started with a 1 star rating, because some of the men made me furious. At the end, I could see that this show empowered women, and give it a 3 star.

I am disappointed in how shallow some of them are. How can you test if love is blind, if you start talking about how you look, your prefered look etc?

This seems to be just an ordinary dating show, without the sense of commitment, not like the other Love is blind I have watched.

And some of the men are so jealous, and competitive. You cannot claim a woman after a short date or two!(or any time) You are not there to get best friends, but to find a potential life partner. The conversations were mostly shallow, but what do I know, this might be a culture thing.

And what about getting better soundproofing, so that the men can shout in their quarters, without the ladies hearing them?

Some of the men seems to be very aggressive, want to own their woman and control her. Not good.

If these men are representative of Arab men, I would advise any sane woman to keep their distance.

I found the men on the show to be aggressive and entitled, often belittling women. One even stated that his wife should put her life in second place after his. Some justified their behaviour by saying, "that's how I was raised." The borderline jealousy they displayed is alarming.

They exhibit traits of unchecked anger, disrespect toward others, and controlling behaviour towards women, coupled with an inflated ego. They frequently spoke about God, but their actions didn't align with their words.

Very hard to watch, full of cringe, and filled with unwanted tension from contestants interactions with each other, especially between genders. Basically all the men here are aggressive, toxic, fake, full of double standards, and want to twist everything into their favor and to look better. It pours from each sentence, they are unapologetic and annoyingly painful to watch. If this program is a representation of it's cultural circle, then they have a lot to catch up.

On the other hand- there are few very strong and brave women there, that can stand their ground, and have their say despute oppresive environment.

Even though men are very angry about it, and try to bully and belittle them.

I absolutely do not recommend this.