Before We Say Goodbye

Before We Say Goodbye is a modern portrayal of a Hispanic family coping with the realities of life and death. Although the scenario is based on a Hispanic viewpoint, any family can relate to one or more of the situations that take place throughout the film: from coping with the death of a loved one, to marriage and financial problems, to not agreeing with one's family values or religions, or just trying to be accepted as oneself amongst a family unit.

The story is told through Ramona, the steadfast mother, who continues to have faith that a miracle is possible to save Carlos (her dying husband) despite all odds. As we journey with her in her quest, we also experience what other members of the family are going through in their own lives and in their relation to Ramona and Carlos.

Although Ramona doesn't quite end up getting the miracle she expects, the story has an uplifting finale that leaves her (and us) with an undeniable affirmation of hope and empowering strength to go on. This is an emotionally moving film that reminds us we all have different problems and beliefs in life, but things usually work out… just as they are meant to, which at times, in itself, can be a phenomenon perceived as a miracle.

Heartfelt, sad, and sometimes hilariously over the top, "Before We Say Goodbye" is the story of one mother's dogged faith in the midst of mostly agnostic, atheistic family members who do not share her beliefs. For me, the matriarch, Ramona Garcia was the heart and soul of this film, she steals the show with a poignant and unforgettable portrayal. She is the rock, the believer in miracles, the anchor that holds her family together. Surrounded by colorful characters who are sometimes tepid, cynical or downright mocking of her faith, she loves them with her entire being. Ramona's juxtaposition to Our Lady of Guadalupe (who for Catholics is the ultimate picture of a mother's unconditional love) is central to this story and the fuel that drives this movie forward. Do not expect a religious film though, it does not sugar-coat. "Before We Say Goodbye" delves into both the reverent and irreverent, the inspiring and the beautiful within the day-to-day life of a Hispanic family who are not all on the same page. Tremendously moving musical score and soundtrack, especially loved the title track and Psalm 23. Congratulations to Director, Paul Davids, for an engaging film that explores the powerful dynamics of love and conflict found within faith and family relationships.

I recently attended a private screening of this film, and found it to be very engaging and involving subject matter. I don't normally see these sort of movies, but upon viewing the trailer, I just had to see the film! Also, as a non-Catholic protestant, I did not find the story to be done from my point of view, but it was well done, regardless. Great cast, acting, direction, script, story, use of production values, locations, cinematography, with warm lighting and a colorful scenic backdrop for the story. And the theme music is memorable, with a good music score. I'm looking forward to seeing this movie again when it is in general release! This film should be a great success! I congratulate Paul Davids and Patricia Crespin!

Super and incredibly Hispanic!! For sure a best bet to see. Will make you cry, laugh, get mad and be happy. Hits all the right buttons and is remarkably funny and totally real. This movie is a true portrayal of modern day Hispanic families across the globe. The actors were perfect fits for their roles. It is amazing to see how honest and straight to the facts this movie is carried out. The plot is amazing the sites were incredible to see in this movie. It shows realistically what a family of any culture deals with each day of their lives. It is not just hispanic but can be applied to every culture. There were no hidden or secret agendas, it was all spelled out, like it or not, and that's what makes this a for real movie. It reminds us that miracles truly do happen, maybe not the way we like or pray for, but none the less they do occur. This movies helps us to look in all the right places for these miracles of our daily life. Very inspirational and very moving.

Universal appeal, deeply moving, Before We Say Goodbye is a film depicting a Hispanic family but honestly, it reflects all families; exposing both their strengths and their weaknesses. Paul Davids has woven a rich experience by keeping the filming simple and authentic. The actors come across real characters, and the story will catch you and hold you from the first scene till the last, as it asks and gently answers the question, "What is a modern miracle, and how does it compare with miracle's of old?" The musical soundtrack is superb, The story is touching. It will make you laugh and cry and sometimes it will make you do both at once. I haven't met anyone who has seen it that didn't appreciate this rare gem of an independent film! Paul Davids and the entire cast and crew is to be congratulated. This is what independent film is really about. Put Before We Say Goodbye on your must see list. It has been held over again and again at my local theater