Desparejado

I thought it was cute & funny. It's just a show though! No way I expected this is an actual representation of gay men in NY. No different than sex and the city, GOT, stranger things, dead to me, better call Saul or ANY other popular tv show...I recognize it's just tv. If you're expecting this to be real life or if you are turned off by same sex relationships, just don't watch it. If you are looking for a mindless show to give you a good chuckle, give it a try.

As another middle-aged gay man writing a review of this, I'm on the boat of this show is just not very good. I so wanted to love it. I watched the whole season and I'm happy that this is not my social circle in any way, shape or form. It's all super shallow characters putting on the facade of caring and emotion. It's just one stereotype after another parading through scenes. It's surreptitiously judgmental and cruel in the guise of sarcasm and cutesy snark. A cast of great actors are utterly let down and left in a wasteland of a vapid script and storyline. And I didn't mention the female characters because they're such an afterthought and underwritten in this show that it's a disservice to the great Tisha Campbell and Marcia Gay Harden to even bring it up. Why bother when the writers didn't?

My Review - Uncoupled My Rating. 7/10 Streaming on Netflix

I enjoyed this new series especially its charismatic and talented star Neil Patrick Harris who plays Michael a mature age Gay man who's partner Colin of 17 years ( Tuc Watkins) suddenly announces on the eve of his 50th Birthday party that he wants to end their relationship and moves out of their apartment.

It's so refreshing to see a series that normalises the issues that we in same sex marriages or relationships experience which of course are the same as heterosexual relationships especially divorce or the ending of longterm partnerships when we all need the support of friends an family.

The Central character Michael (Neil Patrick Harris) now alone and in shock after his well ordered predictable lifestyle comes crashing down find's himself angry and resentful reluctantly entering the single world again with the help of some fun and interesting friends like his zany co worker Suzanne ( Tisha Campbell) , Stanley ( Brooks Ashmanskas) his chubby and wittily acerbic longterm friend and Billy (Emerson Brooks ) a narcissistic but lovable buddy .

I also liked Marcia Gay Harden who plays Claire a super wealthy Manhattan matron who like Michael finds herself alone after her husband leaves her for a younger woman.

The similarities to Sex and the City are obvious in this Gay rom com 8 part series . I noticed that before I read that the series co creator Darren Star also created Sex and the City . Of course it's setting is New York and the characters instead of being about Sisterhood is more of a Bromance but the humorous situations and sentiments are similar as we get to know some fun characters.

This series is far better than the dreadful sequel to Sex and the City "And Just Like That".

The other creator of this series Jeffrey Richman also has a fine pedigree of comedy writing with shows like Modern Family ,Frasier and Desperate Housewives.

I've read a few derogatory comments already but don't agree with many of them especially those accusing the writers of promoting gay stereotypes or the portrayal of white upper class privilege . Please , we're not talking about Tolstoy or Dostoyevsky here it's a light comedy about likeable characters in everyday situations that occur in all friendships the fact that they're affluent is irrelevant.

For generations GLBTQI film and television audiences have watched countless Heterosexual lifestyle domestic and comedy series like Sex and the City and movies and we enjoy them .

I think it's refreshing and important to now have the same focus on our GLBTQI lifestyles whether they are duplicates of the privileged affluent characters in Sex and the City or not ?

Michael could be Carrie Bradshaw , Billy could be Samantha , Stanley could be Miranda etc and no one complained of self indulgent white privilege or the slightly overt sexual content in Sex and the City While not perfect I found Uncoupled fun , light and entertaining and 5 or so hours of relief from the usual diet of murder and mayhem so freely available on television today.

No confirmation yet but Series 2 of Uncoupled is apparently on the cards and I'll look forward to it.

Very relatable to any person (any sexual orientation) who had been in a relationship for decades and finds themselves starting over. The grief of losing that person, the self doubt, all the insecurities coupled with great, supportive friends. That said the cast was great! Looking forward to Netflix renewal for season 2, want to see what's next for ALL of the characters.

If you want something without clichés and stereotypes watch Eastsiders BUT if you want a funny not excessively over done storyline with good pacing and relevant jokes (but also historical gay refrences) definetly watch this! Not everything has to be completely accurate of how gay men live nowadays even though it's not even doing a horrible job at that - but watching someone doom scroll and figure out how to pay bills doesn't really make for a compelling show y'all realize that, right? I'm glad we got over the sad depressing storylines of how bad and never with a happy ending the gay life is - this is a nice change of pace.

The characters have their own side storylines and compliment the main storyline well and it's a comfy but compelling show overall!

Can't wait for season two!

I really wish they would emphasize the part of self sufficiency and individuality more and how to get there instead of just criticizing the dependency of most monogamous relationships.

The part with the guru and spiritual awakening was a nice storyline but executed poorly because the viewer didn't actually take any benefit from it because the new acquired knowledge wasn't communicated- there was just a bunch of snapping. If it was too aspirational leave it out! But I liked how all the storylines left off in the end! Give it a chance it's fun!