- Dave Leigh: You need to go and tell her, show her how you really feel or you're going to regret it for the rest of your life. She is spinning right now, and by the way that she's talking, if you're not careful, she's going to spin away from you. You need to "Love Actually", "Punch Drunk Love" it. Pick any movie from the late '90's and go and get your girl. This is exactly what you would tell me. So are you going to take your own advice or are you just going to sit here and nurse this stupid milkshake?