PrimeMates

I've seen the prescreening and was riveted by the honest conversation men have in intimate moments. Want to know why men feel more inclined to cheat than women? Primemates begins to open up that dialogue in a fascinating way. This film gives us a compelling honest and raw exploration of evolutionary psychology through the conversation of four pals who ritually meet for cigars every week. Through the sharing of stories, advice and even laughter, the men openly discuss their darkest desires and secrets. Although primal urges overtake the best of us, we quickly realize that it is not without consequence.

~ S.G. Los Angeles

The film, Primemates, is an original bright star in a dulled sky of cinema repetition! I reviewed this film and give it 5 stars out of 5 stars. Rudy Luna, the director, proves that good cinema is about good story and great acting and CGI, blood and guts, and gratuitous sex is completely unnecessary. From the very beginning of the film, when the young hot girl walks in the cigar lounge, I was intrigued. Throughout the film I kept thinking that I knew where the plot was heading, but I was dead wrong which is very rare for a avid film reviewer. The cast, Joe Estevez, Leo Rossi, Ethan Phillips, and Will Wallace are exceptional and I had to continually remind myself that it was scripted because they all played the roles so convincingly. It was as if I were eves dropping on their very intimate and vulnerable conversations. This film will make every man wonder and question his desires and it will validate every woman's notions of what the real meaning of commitment and love is! I love it and so will you!

I saw the film at Paso Robles and love it. It's one of those films that has a long lasting affect. The acting was amazing and it's such a raw honest look at human behavior it makes you think about your own life and your own relationships. I don't want to write much because I don't want to give it away, but it's a sleeper that's for sure!

It starts in a cigar lounge, where men as they all do, start mixing it up and sharing jokes until a young girl walks in, this of course gets there heart pumping. Once she leave the room the real true discussion comes out. The men, being all older, start talking about what it would be like to be with someone so young, but they know it's all talk because there's no way that could happen. But when one of the characters tells the other that it can happen and he's living proof, they all want to know how. Before you know it they are all sharing personal secrets and what comes out at the end is shocking. You really have to see this film!

I go to the movies to be entertained by the moving images on the silver screen. Sometimes a deep and meaningful message is communicated. I know this has occurred when the movie remains with me, I replay it over and over and the brain tries to piece together the newly presented clues to the puzzle of life.

An old professor, Fr. McCann said the purpose of art is to make us think and a good friend Tom D. said the purpose is to make us emote. Primates has it all. Masterfully shot on a shoestring budget in four days, the images and sounds had me deeply emote. Honesty can be dangerous. So as we navigate this life with trial and error, attempting to work out the problems of being, the most agreed upon plan- an education, a source of income, friends/a mate/ a family, give the brain plenty to ruminate about and compel us to share it's subjective conclusions/judgments with whomever will listen. When the trials in life force us to be honest and the fear of judgment is momentarily removed in a safe environment, the personal fears, which have accumulated since birth are released from their prison and lose their grip on infinite possibilities for liberty that life holds. Liberty is questioning the plan.

What more could I want from a movie? Maybe a solution to it all- IN the sequel! Primates is spectacular!! Six stars!!! > Seamus McDonagh

It has been said that a substantial part of a filmmaker's work is achieved with the right actors. If so, writer-direction Rudy Luna has considerably lightened his load in this perfectly cast film. In PrimeMates (2010) four friends relax in a cigar lounge.

The topic of discussion seems inevitably to turn to that of sex and desire. Ray (Leo Rossi) argues that infidelity is simply an "evolutionary" phenomenon, one that has actually strengthened his marriage. Devoted to his wife, Clint (Ethan Phillips) challenges Ray's carefully constructed, intellectual argument. Joe (Joe Estevez) seems less remorseful about his divorce than entranced by the passionate affair which brought it about. And Jim (Will Wallace), the self-aggrandizing womanizer (the "slut") of the group, serves as foil to what seems the relatively diffident, Prufrock-like, Clint.

The machismo and jousting, locker-room camaraderie suggest a certain shallowness and superficiality in the male menagerie. But as Oscar Wilde reminded us, "the truth is seldom plain and never simple." When Ray promises to reveal a secret if the others will respond in kind the story becomes at once both more disturbing and more meaningful. A conversational movie, even one punctuated with the occasional flashback, is a risky venture. On the other hand, when that risk pays off it can become that most valuable of films--raw and redemptive, yet believable and riveting. The casual tone progressively grows darker and more unsparing as these middle-aged men relate their own stark, once-told tales.

In PrimeMates Rudy Luna's first film manages to uncover the archetype beneath the stereotype. All good stories are about trial and transformation, and the one here is no exception. The unexpected narrative turn ambushes both audience and characters in a poignant, haunting depiction of the depth and integrity of authentic relationship.

Bob