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I have a degree in architecture-but I don't go around claiming to be an architect. So let me be clear: if you're watching Secret Smile with a psychology degree in one hand and a checklist of forensic realism in the other, you're missing the point entirely.

This is not a procedural. This is a psychological thriller. And like real psychological abuse, it doesn't unfold in a courtroom-it unfolds in gaslit family dinners, charming smiles that hide rot, and the unbearable silence when no one believes you.

David Tennant's performance as Brendan is chilling because it's real. If you've ever dealt with a sociopath, a narcissist, or someone who weaponizes charm, you know exactly how fast they get into your life-and how easily they turn your friends and family against you.

Some reviewers complain about the victim being "slutty" or "selfish." Let me translate that for you: she wasn't obedient enough to be palatable. She had sex, she had fear, and she had no perfect script. That's not a flaw in the writing. That's accurate.

And the family not believing her? Also accurate. Because this is how emotional abusers operate: they isolate, they ingratiate, and they discredit the victim while smiling through the front door.

If you thought the ending was "unrealistic," you've clearly never been cornered. Never had to plan your own escape because no one else would help. The blood twist isn't fantasy-it's desperation turned into strategy.

To the American audience expecting clear heroes and villains, digestible diagnoses, and perfect courtroom monologues: go back to your network dramas. Secret Smile isn't here to comfort you. It's here to show you how evil wears a grin, and how survival doesn't come wrapped in justice-it comes wrapped in scars and silence.

This story hit me hard because I've lived through gaslighting. I've seen charm weaponized. And I know exactly what it means to walk away with no vindication-just the knowledge that you made it out alive.

So if you hated this show? Maybe it was too close to home. Maybe that discomfort wasn't the show's failure-it was your signal to pay attention.

This show is 1.5 decades old but I just watched it and mostly for Tennant. The rest of the cast was good, and I especially like John Bowe (Miranda's father).

All that being said, the ending was daft and completely unrealistic. That, alone, ruined it all for me.

I agree with Jane Dow, except that for "interesting" I have to substitute "predictable"! I missed the first 20 mins of part 1 of this last night (which didn't seem to matter ...); part 2 is on tonight and having looked at the reviews, I now know that there is a "surprise" end. But, that doesn't change the flaws in this story, too many to list here - and Jane Dow has nailed most of them. But from what I've read, the "surprise" is equally flawed and unrealistic.

This reminds me vaguely of another 2-part TV film that was shown on the BBC last year: it was called "The 7.39", starring David Morrissey and Sheridan Smith. This was very slow moving but equally predictable - no surprise ending so less flawed because it was so mundane. What I find amazing is that "The 7.39" got a lot of hype before it was shown (... following which it got a lot of flack!); I only came across Secret Smile on TV last night by chance, but I have to say that judging by the quality, or lack thereof, of programmes like this, I think I need to get my pen/computer out! If TV companies are happy to continue to make TV films that are implausible, I can come up with some good story lines: to make them more exciting and appealing they too would be a bit flawed and thin on research (I would be a bit more diligent in having my characters having COMMON SENSE though!), but if anyone's interested, I'm here :-)

this film was actually one of the best films that i've seen and the fact that David Tennant was in the film made me want to see it after his brilliant appearance in Casanova and not to mention Doctor Who. i felt like it was my duty to see this film and considering that i don't usually watch anything that appears on ITV1 unless it's a film that i am sure of. David Tennant's appearance stunned me and i really like the last few minutes. great film, i'd recommend it to anyone, any time, any day. The whole film gave me shivers and the cold, cruel character that David Tennant played was such an indescribable character and my god it is now my favourite film. I was told that i should watch it because it's my sort of film and not to be mean but the beginning bored me a bit but i soon got the gist of the film nd went with the flow. there is so much that i want to say about how i feel towards the film but the only problem is how to put it into words. The film was great, Tennant was even better (not to mention sexy), and the plot was very cool,too. i wish that i had been there when the film was actually being made as it makes me want to cry yet it also makes me want to kill some of the characters. I'd never seen David Tennant play such a chilling and mysterious character before and it was such an abrupt change from his character as the Doctor and Romeo (Romeo and Juliet). This film is a must-see so make it top of your priority's to see this film J.

Oh, Secret Smile. I love you, but hesitate to recommend you. The last time I did online, I got so much static. And the criticism were mostly valid: it's exploitative, the plot relies on everyone aside from the leads behaving as stupidly as possible, some aspects of mental illness and the legal system are depicted inaccurately, and more. But the main reason why people hate it is because it presses their buttons. Brendan is both very attractive and the ultimate nightmare stalker, and viewers -- not to mention the other characters -- are pushed and pulled between their conflicting feelings about that. When you think about it, it's clever, because it's similar to the push/pull people sometimes feel for their stalker, often an ex that they struggle to get away from, and stay away. Claire's character is less vulnerable than most people, and tries to get out fast, but even so, Brendan insinuates himself into her life. And that is frankly, frightening. Look: I've been stalked twice in my life. I'm far from believing "this can happen to anyone" and victims are helpless, but anyone can be sucked into a stalker's game for a time. And if it hasn't happened to them, the people around you won't understand completely. I wish I had a dollar for every time someone said "have you told him to leave you alone?" So I can say with confidence that Brendan's dialogue and behaviour, at least in the early part of the show is realistic. If you can appreciate this show as a crazy nightmare with a core of reality, you will not only enjoy it, but also have some food for thought.