Shameful Secrets

This film has two names, the one I viewed was "Going Underground" which is a better title for this type of film about a very happy looking married couple with two children. However, once the front door is shut the husband turns into another person and thinks he is in the boxing ring with his wife, who has no defense except to take all the right and left shots to the jaw. Joanna Kerns,(Maryann Walker-Tate) gave an outstanding performance through out the entire picture as the wife who struggles to keep her children and try to change the laws about abused women in the United States. Tim Matheson, (Daniel) gave a great supporting role as the most shameful husband/father you would ever want to know. This subject always needs to be told, because unfortunately women are still having to face this horrible brutality.

This played on Lifetime Television under the title "Going Underground," which intrigued me. There are women who go underground, changing their identities and living anonymous lives to hide themselves and their children from abusive husbands. But this never lived up to it. The heroine didn't "go underground" until the last 15 minutes of the film, and it was shown in quick stills. What did they show, then? A completely ordinary and predictable drama with every Battered Woman chicle in the book. Talk about false advertising! I felt so cheated, I wanted to batter the people who made this, especially the one who chose the title. The story and its ending will surprise only those who have never watched Lifetime Television before.

Effective movie where a battered woman takes her kids and runs. Joanna Kerns is good. The abusive husband played by Tim Mathison is 100% bad repeatedly abusive and kicks her out and more. She moves to a shelter and the judge gives custody to the bad dad. There seems to be little recourse for her. One problem with this movie is how can everything in the system go against her? At the crux of this movie is that the judge can't take account spousal abuse in custody hearings.

When her boy starts get abused she realises she needs to run with the kids.

Worth a watch but it's quite fraught with emotion.

I'm trying to limit my intake of Lifetime movies, if not stop watching them altogether. I haven't been counting, but I've seen over 5 now. Out of all of them, I only found a couple that I enjoyed. Most of them are trash. Ridiculous plotlines and laughable acting, even when the film revolved around a serious topic. I guess for people who don't get out much, they teach "lessons." But as for me, I often feel like they're a waste of my time. However, there were some films that I just couldn't finish watching, no matter how much I tried. Not because they were crappy, but more or less disturbing. It's not very often that a movie makes me mad... Like to the point of my heart racing. Anything not real that makes me feel like that, I don't consider to be entertaining. Tim Matheson gave such a believable performance as the evil, wife-beating husband, Daniel, of Joanna Kerns (Maryanne), that I wanted to jump through the screen and try to fight him, since she was too scared to do it. He beats her relentlessly in front of their 2 kids, even hitting her when she was holding one of them. And that's when I couldn't take it anymore, so I stopped watching. I hate to see kids suffering. I can watch stuff that contains all sorts of violence, and not be bothered, but I have a low tolerance for watching kids get harmed. Some people just allow too much dysfunction in their house. At what point was she going to leave him? If he didn't have a problem terrifying his own children, he had been abusive for years. That didn't start happening out of nowhere. I know movies can ignite all kinds of emotions within us, and that's not something we should run away from, because we're human. Nonetheless, I personally don't like to get stressed out when I watch a film. I plan on never revisiting this again.

...so he walked away before the end and the movie doesn't really conclude properly after dragging more than an hour and a half with the same issue. The pianist, unfortunately, stayed all along and felt he had to play through every sing scene for drama purpose. Despite good acting all around, this movie is almost as painful to go through as the issue it is supposed to depict.