Blood Vows: The Story of a Mafia Wife

Melissa Gilbert should have stayed on the "Prairie." I just watched this again after nearly 20 years, and to say it hasn't aged well is being generous. Maybe I'm more socially aware now, or maybe the Sopranos has raised the bar for portrayals of those involved in the Mafia, but this movie is dreadful. There are so many stereotypes it's hard to keep track. A low point comes when a detective gives Melissa's character his name, which is Italian, and she responds with shock, as though he should be involved in organized crime as well. He is required to educate her by saying "The name on a birth certificate doesn't determine your destiny." Collective groan...

The character of "Mama" is ridiculously stereotypical, with lines of dialog spoken in a cringe-worthy accent, like: "You'll eat lots of pasta and have many babies." Uh, okay...

I'm astounded how many people have given this film a 10. I gave it a 3 thanks to the numerous shirtless scenes with Joe Penny. LOL!

Beautiful love story with a dark twist. I found it informative and digs truth to the psychology behind this relationship. I watched this as a teenager and found it to be inspiring. I plan to have my kids watch it once I find out where we can access the full movie...

I liked the movie very much. The dialog was very well written. I suppose that you cannot please everyone in the business of writing screenplays. I do not think that most people realize how difficult it really is to write a screenplay or concoct a simple tale for the sake of entertainment. I suppose it is easy for most critics to bash a film without ever having written a screenplay. I believe that if viewers would stop taking themselves so seriously when watching a movie, we could all enjoy reasonable programming instead of watching the virtual garbage we are watching today. This movie was enjoyable to watch and that's it. I have even bought the VHS version myself. Viewers need to appreciate the art of movie making and stop complaining until THEY have sat at a typewriter and put together a 120 page script and be able to cast top people to entertain ingrates from one hour and thirty-five minutes of your time.

This is a routinely scripted made-for-tv drama, with rather predictable characters and situations.

There's nothing particularly fresh in understanding that it's tough being the wife of a mobster, even when she enters into a marriage not knowing all about her spouse.

That said, there's something compelling about this production, and it's the quality of the acting. Joe Penny, who kept busy during the 80s limning both good 'n' bad guy roles, shines in the lead. Penny, former member of an "elite acting student circle" of Lee Strasberg, knows something about his craft, and executes solid work.

Likewise grown up "Laura" from "Little House on the Prairie," Melissa Gilbert, projects growing discouragement as the sad wife, learning what she married into. Eileen Brennan is seen as senior spouse willing to "blow the whistle" and talk to authorities (Brennan's certainly come a long way from "Little Mary Sunshine"!).

And finally the familiar Tony Franciosa shows up in a law enforcement role, rounding out a dedicated cast. In the end, one may not learn much having watched this piece, but there's a lot to be appreciated in the intense no-nonsense performances by this strong group of New York acting pros.

This is not a bad movie at all. If you look at the Ratings on this site, though, you will see a big difference between men and women. Women (especially younger age groups) love it! Men hate it. It is a very involving love story that succeeds in capturing the emotions. Incredible as this may seem, it is a truly romantic story. The reasons it hasn't done better are:

• Some bad direction has the FBI's attempts to make contact with the heroines look really stupid and clumsy, to the degree that it almost blows your suspension of disbelief.

• Some of the money spent on this movie could have been much better spent. There is a helicopter sequence involving a shootout that was completely overblown and seemed to have ambitions to look like a movie about the Vietnam war. It portrayed gangsters going on what was in effect a suicide mission, and the real gangsters aren't into that. A more limited and under-stated gunfight sequence (more along the lines of THE GODFATHER; short, nasty and brutish) would have been cheaper and better.

• The end is rather excellent and courageous, but it shocks the audience in the way that it NEEDS to shock, without pandering to the demands to indulge the addiction of today's audience for sugary endings, and so the movie gets punished in the Ratings. Nonetheless, maybe the ending could have been handled a little better, to take the sting out of it.

There is plenty of room for a sequel showing what happens next, even though the original was filmed years ago.