Unutursam Fisilda

This is a very touching story about very young people and very old people. An age of youth, full of great hopes, strong desires and fresh emotions is shown as a contrast to the weaknesses of the old characters and evokes a range of feelings. The strong ambitions of talented youth force them to seek fame. They meet love and success, difficulties and losses, they meet their destiny. But life goes on, all mistakes must be forgiven, all grievances must be forgotten. So watch and meet a wonderful film about success, love story and destiny. And don't be too shy to cry in the end of this touching story.

There are echoes of several classic Hollywood films in Çağan Irmak's UNUTURSAM FIŞILDA (WHISPER IF I FORGET). In a provincial town two sisters Hatice (Farah Zeynep Abdullah) and Hanife (Gözde Çığacı) become enamored of rich boy Tarık (Mehmet Günsür). Tarık falls for Hatice, and the two of them resolve to become professional singers. They elope to İstanbul and find their fortune in the big time by working for major promoter Kemal (Gürkan Uygun). Only Hatice knows that her entire career has been built on deceit; while claiming to have written the lyrics of her hit song herself, she has actually stolen them from her sister, who was something of a talented poet in her younger days.

In its portrayal of stardom and its pitfalls, especially its effect on Hatice (now given the stage-name Ayperi) and Tarık, Irmak's film has strong echoes of A STAR IS BORN. Hatice/ Ayperi proves to be highly strung, while Tarık cannot endure the star's life and eventually turns to drink. Their star status gradually declines, and Ayperi is left financially destitute, forced to return to her sister after many years to seek shelter.

What renders UNUTURSAM FIŞILDA memorable is not the sequences where Ayperi/ Hatice enjoys her star's life, but the sequences set in the present where the older Hatice (Hümeyra) tries to re-establish a relationship with Hanife (Işıl Yücesoy). There is a lot of peace- making to be done: the two sisters have never spoken since Hatice eloped with Tarık, and Hanife seems less than willing to accommodate Hatice, even though Hatice is in the first stages of Alzheimer's. The only indication we have that all will be well is the lighting: most of the action takes place in bright sunlight, creating an edenic world where everything is eventually forgiven.

The ending is unashamedly sentimental, but along the way Irmak has made some trenchant points about the ways in which people's lives are based on falsehood; not just Hatice but Hanife as well. When times are good, no one really wants to acknowledge that uncomfortable fact; it is only when things go wrong that people are forced to face up to themselves as well as reconsider their relationship to others.

The film is a visual treat for nostalgics, especially those old enough to remember Seventies pop and fashion with its garish colors, banal lyrics and artificially tricky camera-work. Definitely worth a look.

A good film, emotional and heart-breaking but entertaining at the same time.

This film make you feel sad but you can that wow after watched it.

Because this story is amazing. Living in a.strict family in that times, it refleckt so truly. In total, it is a magnificent work that should be watched among Turkish films. Do not approach with judgment. Movie soundtracks and far beyond theirs. Even the title is chosen well enough. Their acting is really good. I cried towards the end. I watch this movie from time to time, but not all the time, and whether it's the credits or the scenes, it always gives me the same feeling. It might be a good idea to check out the soundtrack of the series after watching it. Even the lead has a crazy voice.

As someone who has witnessed Alzheimer's first hand and lived through it with my family I was drawn to this film based on the initial plot summary. The portrayal of the family relationships and the interactions and behaviors was very real and honest. Everything is not always as it seems with people and their lives. There is a price to pay often for success. The scenes were very realistic and honest and had good dialogues. I appreciated how they ease you into the story and the dig deeper into the drama. How the story unfolded slowly and sweetly, opening new layers to the drama. As I'm becoming a huge Turkish movie and Tv fan I love the family dynamics and how it's not to terribly different from most families. A great mix of traditional and modern patterns. The acting was excellent by all.