That Thing Called Tadhana

While Love is unconditional, constant, and unchanging, the WAY we love is always different. People should hopefully take comfort in the fact that that makes, not only way you love someoone unique, but YOU unique as well.

Unfortunately, people tend to also forget that many relationships are finite. It's been said, "It is interesting to note that people can easily recognize when a relationship begins, but are unable or unwilling to recognize when a relationship ends."

Mace is a broken-hearted young woman coming off an 8-year relationship with her boyfriend who is living in Rome. Angelica Panganiban plays the role so realistically, you can feel her anger, frustration, and sense of loss. I would wager than anyone, who has ever been where she is, has felt exactly how she feels.

Anthony is a young man also returning home from Rome, and he sees Mace struggling to lighten her suitcase in order to meet the weight criteria. He decides to help her. He's also there through her rants and outbursts, but somehow, we get the sense that he understands her plight.

This is a film that reminded me a lot of "Before Sunrise," a brilliant movie where two people walk around Vienna getting to know each other. However, in this case, it's about two people spending time together, helping each other to heal. While Mace's hurts are recent, we discover that Anthony is also carrying some old hurts and regrets as well, but he's able to find ways to help Mace.

Angelica Panganiban and JM De Guzman are simply brilliant, and more importantly, real. They know their characters inside and out, and they are also very relatable. They could easily be anyone who has been where they are, and because the story is told in such a realistic tone, it works tremendously well.

Perhaps Mace will realize that making someone else the center of your life is always a disaster waiting to happen. Unless you love yourself first, you cannot give what you do not have. Relationships are never about finding someone to complete you. They are always about sharing your completeness with someone else. That is the secret!.

In any case, you learn from past relationships to find what you want in future relationships. And hopefully, when a relationship ends, you are grateful to that person for the time spent and wish them all the best as they continue their own journey.

This is one of those films that I watched without seeing the trailer or having any idea about what the film is about and had no expectations. The film only relied on its two lead actors without any other famous supporting casts, extras, special effects and musical background which made it so raw yet so good at the same time. It makes you go in a journey together with the characters that it makes you feel attached to them. You get to feel how they feel and you start to root for them to get together in the end. It had a really good story-telling and used breath-taking locations that makes you immerse in the story. Splendid acting from both Angelica and JM.

I have to admit that I don't watch a lot of Philippine movies, and the willingness is even lower when it comes to the romance genre. In that department, they tend to follow the same formula over and over; and generally, it's not hard for them to be tagged "cheesy". Finally, after a period of hibernation towards watching Filipino movies in their theatrical release, we have decided to watch a Filipino film. We came up with a shortlist, but then a rather cheesy title took the number one spot. All right, let's try this one if we can bear it. But then, it turned out to be an irony because it was rather refreshing to watch. Yes, it's enjoyable and memorable.

What stood out is the insightful and introspective take on rather mundane things about relationships and life in general. The film even reminded me of Linklater's Before Sunrise and Before Sunset. Just like these films, the driving force is the dialogue, and in many occasions, the writing is smart and funny. The film's prevailing tone is a fun and thoughtful joyride. Aside from literally traveling with the characters, you become part of the protagonist's soul-searching after her failed long-term relationship. You're in for a treat with interesting characters, engaging dialogue, and some breathtaking scenery. Worth mentioning is the Sagada trip, which showcased impressive directorial shots. In terms of the performances, it felt like Angelica Panganiban took the wheel, and her partner played the role of a passenger reacting to her driving skills. They were put together in a fateful encounter, and the combination rather worked out well given the risk of being contrived. It worked best when the dialogue is minimal.

Although it was not devoid of cheesy conversations and perhaps ineffective jokes, it contained several well-paced scenes, just like in Coppola's Lost In Translation, that allow us to contemplate about the truths that the film has brought up rather indirectly. In fact, certain scenes, just like the one on the streets of Baguio about 'the heart' and 'the arrow', were reminiscent of the creativity of Gondry's Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. Also, the guitar background music has set a similar tone. If the film's rough edges were polished, it had some striking qualities of a film widely considered by international critics as a masterpiece. However, in itself, it is already a refreshing turn in the direction of Philippine cinema. If you're looking for a film to enjoy under the turf of quality storytelling, this film will definitely deliver.

-That Ting Called Tadhana (2015) movie review: -That Thing called Tadhana is a rom-com from the Philippines, so if you don't like foreign films that's okay, that follows a girl who runs into a guy at an airport, and they become friends and try to figure out how to move on from personal grief.

-Okay, it sounds cheesy, but it was pretty real and heartfelt. It also was not as funny at a rom-com or as romantic as a rom-com, which I thought helped its authenticity.

-The story was great. I thought it was originally handled and compelling.

-The film is slow, to that is one downside.

-I don't know any of the actors in it, but I thought they all did a great job!

-The characters are real and deep, but also hopeful and easy to like.

-The music is- actually I can't recall any of the music, so it is either really fitting for background music or really forgettable.

-Honestly there is not much to say about the film. Basically if you do not hate foreign films and like romantic films that offer something really realistic and believable, That Thing Called Tadhana is totally worth checking out at full price! -I don't think is has a rating, but it has some language in it, including a few F-words. Good news, it is all subtitles though!

Even though i don't know Filipino but watch it nevertheless. Feel like crying and laughing at the same times. Can really to both the actor. Superb acting and very real.totally recommend to everyone esp with the one with broken hearts.What a movie, movie like this come once in a decade. You can relate to both the character. Having been brought in a lots of over the top acting and unrealistic story lines from Bollywood it is a nice change for a while. I hope bollywood will not copy and spoil it . great location esp in the interior of Philippine. I am now a fan of Filipinos movies after this and metro manila. I really like the scene at the villages when the hero hesitate for a while.