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Hi, I’m Alexandra, a tea drinking, robot-obsessed, humanoid, with an over active imagination. When not scribbling on random bits of paper, or doodling in my journal, I capture my thoughts with a butterfly net, stuff them into tiny glass jars with brass lids, and store them on dusty shelves in various corners of my mind till I’m ready to share them.

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5 Silly Things About Me

Sylvia has challenged us to write 5 silly things about ourselves and, well, having been commanded by the Queen of the Netherlands herself, how can I refuse? So, here goes nothing.

  1. I will only sleep with two (2) feather pillows. Nothing else and nothing less. Yes, I am the Princess and the damn pea.

  2. I have very specific cups for very specific drinks. My tea must be served in one of my Royal Worcestershire Wrendale designed mugs.

  3. I love eating oranges but someone else must peel or cut them.

  4. I can sleep anywhere at any time of day or night. All hell could be breaking loose and I’d sleep through it. 

  5. I love egg salad sandwiches done how my mother did them when I was a child. A soft boiled egg chopped finely in a mug with butter, mayo, and shredded white bread. 

And you, dear reader, care to share 5 silly things with us all?

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Quebeckers

Quebeckers love to drive on the wrong side of the road in a perverse game of chicken.

Quebeckers think that the large red hexagonal Arret stop signs are optional.

Quebeckers don't stop at a four-way crossroad, they roll through to the other side in some perverse slo-mo.

Quebeckers think their car indicator lights are just Christmas decorations.

Quebeckers think an orange traffic light means slam your foot on the accelerator. 

Quebeckers think it's okay to turn right on a red light, even when the sign say it's illegal.

Quebeckers have forgotten the words for 'please' and 'thank you'.

Quebeckers don't know how to say, excuse me.

Quebeckers like to walk 2, 3 and sometimes, 4 abreast on a pavement.

Quebeckers do not like to give way on a pavement. 

Quebeckers love to jay-walk.

Quebeckers live very short lives.

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Book Review: Foundryside

Let me just say up front, this is not a book for the faint of heart, and would definitely be PG-13 if not higher given some of the content, themes and descriptions. Including some grisly deaths. But that said, all of it is within context to the world in which this story is set. It’s a dark, definitely bleak story, and yet?

And yet, the author, Robert Jackson Bennett, does something unique amid all the darkness he gives us hope, he gives us humour and plenty of courage, as his characters fight through the harsh realities of their lives and situations. In the end, despite the tragedies and hardship, friendship, commitment, strength and courage bring a disparate band of diverse characters together to overcome a great deal. 

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Life with a Kakapo

It's a fact! I'm living with a Kakapo. 

And while it's true this Kakapo is (for the most part) a quiet, unassuming person during the day and prone to freezing when startled—I have come to dread it turning up every night in my bed. It usually slips in beside me quite late, and then? 

And then it starts. 

The cacophony of little noises. 

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AMA #4

Today I thought to answer a few questions asked for the AMA challenge.

What's your comfort movie/show/piece of media, and - if you feel like sharing - why?

This one is easy. My go to comfort movie is The Fifth Element. I have lost count the number of times I have watched this movie, as I watch it at least 2-3 times a year. If I need a pick-me-up for any reason whatsoever, and sometimes, for no reason at all, I slot the DVD in, press play, and escape.

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Being Certified ‘Cool’

I swear I need to go back to night school to take a certificate in Fridge Operating procedures as, even after 40 plus years, I still have problems. Despite having a temperature gauge inside the fridge, I never know if the interior is cold enough or not. As by the time I manage to wrangle the damn thing from its hiding place—middle shelf, back—the marker has moved from the green safe zone, into the red danger zone.

Do I have hot hands? Am I doing something wrong?

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By Candle Light

Can someone please explain to me what happened to lightbulbs. When did we go from having cheap incandescent bulbs that fuelled our winter-nights with light to read by, to mercury-filled, evil planet-polluting $6 spotlights which, while they are supposed to last several times longer, don't?

I ask because yet another bulb plinked out of existence in the bathroom and plunged me into semi-darkness as I … eh, well, you don't need to know what I was doing.

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Time is what you make of it.

Time, and indeed, life is what you make of it, as Lou Plummer states in his post, Time Is What You Make Of It. And, like Lou, after having to retire early because of a traumatic event in my life, I found myself on the precipice of a dark place. But even then, faced with a dilemma, I had a choice. So many things happened one after the other that year I could easily have slipped into a long depression. But didn't.

I decided to get organised and, for the most part, I haven't looked back since. I've done my best to stay positive, upbeat and forward thinking. I've tried not to dwell on the past. Or dwell on events I had no control over. Or people whose choices still baffle me to this very day. I try not to fret about things I cannot change and, instead, think about the things I can change, and for the better. That work for me, and my situation and circumstance.

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Spider, Spider

“Incy wincy spider crawled across the wall
Incy wincy spider doesn’t care at all
As incy wincy spider know I won’t squash him
Or squish him with a tissue and throw him in the bin.”

Despite being terrified of spiders as a child — and for good reason, living abroad meant we were in contact with monsters that grew to a seemingly unnatural size — as an adult, I have become more tolerant and even, dare I say it, almost best friends with one particular variety of spider. 

The dashing and rather well named Zebra Spider. This tiny little fellow is a voracious hunter whose territory is large and all encompassing. They patrol day and night all over the floor, walls, and yes, ceiling, looking for pray and, I am reliably informed, will eat just about anything that moves. Thankfully, that doesn’t include me or mine, otherwise … well, it would be all out war.

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Camera in Hand

More and more, I've found myself abandoning taking one or other of my cameras out with me this last year, when going anywhere. Especially if there's a photo op involved. Why? Because of the annoying battery situation and the weight.

While I can cope with the battery situation, when I remember to charge the damn Olympus ahead of time, it's annoying when I've forgotten and, when out, the camera gives up the ghost after a couple of dozen clicks. It's frustrating to say the least. At least with the Pentax ist, not only is it one of the lightest cameras I've ever owned, but the company went with good old fashioned AA batteries instead of rechargeable lithium batteries that need charging every five minutes!

But even so, it still means I have to carry at least two lenses with me if I take the Pentax out, one wide angle the other the telephoto. Which means a bag. Usually a heavy bag.

So that, at the end of the day, I’ll be opting to just take my Merrill messenger bag (which is comfortable and light) and my iPhone 16 pro. And relying on a steady hand, apps, and good weather to take the shot.

That is, unless someone can recommend a very, and I mean, very light, handy digital camera that doesn't need rechargeable batteries?

Suggestions on a postcard to ...

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In & Out

Following on from Sylvia, who herself was following in Carl and Steve’s footsteps, I thought to write up my own version of In & Out, as in, what’s In and what’s Out.

In

  • Writing 

  • Creating

  • Walking

  • Reading 

  • Self care

  • Daydreaming

  • Naps

  • Early nights

Out

  • Worrying 

  • TV news

  • Snacking

  • Late nights

  • Time wasters

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Blog Challenge - Music Edition

I was originally challenged to do this by Annie, last year, but have moved my blog to Pika since then so, I’m reposting it here. Enjoy!

What are five of your favourite albums?

  1. Folklore, Taylor Swift (2020)

  2. Abraxas, Santana (1970)

  3. Madman Across the Water, Elton John (1971)

  4. The Dreaming, Kate Bush (1982)

  5. Hunky Dory, David Bowie, (1971)

Honourable Mentions

  1. Tubular Bells, Mike Oldfield (1973)

  2. Close to the Edge, Yes (1972)

  3. Emerson, Lake & Palmer, Emerson, Lake & Palmer (1970)

  4. Days of Future Passed, Moody Blues (1967)

  5. The Kick Inside, Kate Bush (1978)

  6. Hounds of Love, Kate Bush (1985)

What are five of your favourite songs?

  1. Running up that Hill, Kate Bush

  2. The Man Who Sold The World, David Bowie

  3. Sorry Seems to Be The Hardest Word, Elton John

  4. Exile, Taylor Swift

  5. Sanctuary, Serena Ryder

Favourite instrument(s)?

Violin and Piano

What song or album are you currently listening to?

Pvris by Pvris

Do you listen to the radio? If so, how often?

Three or 4 times a week depending on my mood.

How often do you listen to music?

Every day!

How often do you discover music? And how do you discover music?

Weekly, I would say. Online, through people I know on Social Media, and through partaking in challenges like this one.

What’s a song or album have you enjoy that you wish had more recognition? 

Probably loads but, right now, off the top of my head, I can’t think of a single one.

What’s your favourite song of all time? 

This has to be the dumbest question anyone has ever asked me and impossible to answer.

Has your taste in music evolved over the years? 

Yes, of course it has. But I still have a preference for female singers and vocals and big belting ballads. But I’ll pretty much listen to anything, and give it a go. Point in fact, I just discovered Anthony Vincent doing a cover of Wrecking Ball by Miley Cyrus in the style of Linkin Park. It’s brilliant!

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Get To Know Me Better

Colbert asked the questions and I’m giving the answers.

  • Best sandwich? — Croque Maman.

  • What’s one thing you own that you really should throw out? — Hoodie.

  • What is the scariest animal? — Humans.

  • Apples or oranges? — Neither, bananas.

  • Have you ever asked someone for their autograph? — Yes.

  • What do you think happens when we die? — Nothing.

  • Favourite action movie? — The Fifth Element.

  • Favourite smell? — Fresh coffee.

  • Least favourite smell? — Vomit.

  • Exercise: worth it? — In small doses.

  • Flat or sparkling — Sparkling.

  • Most used app on your phone? — Messages.

  • You get one song to listen to for the rest of your life: what is it? — You’re joking, right?

  • What number am I thinking of? — 12.

  • Describe the rest of your life in 5 words? — Photo clicking tea drinking wanderer.

And, of course, now it’s your turn.

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Where are you?

Following on from Sebastian’s excellent post, Where is your digital home, which itself was a response to Patrick Rhone’s interview on Manu’s People & Blog series. I thought to add my 2 cents worth about where you would find my ethereal digital home.


I would live in a rambling, rose covered cottage on the edge of a forgotten English village, lost in the mists of time, that only a descendent of the ancient Queen Mab might find if they knew how to call the boat to cross the river, where Avalon is still bathed in a Golden light that lingers as the sun sets in the west of a place bordering between here and there. A place that smells of violets and honey, where spring waters run fresh and clear, and apple trees buzz with activity and pale pink blossom covers verdant grass, next to poppies that gently sway to the rhythm of a wind who whispers long forgotten secrets.

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Why I Write

I’ve been writing for as long as I’ve been reading. All thanks to both parents who were both avid readers, though very different kind of books. My mother mostly read romances and historical family sagas — think, the Thorn Birds. My father, on the other hand, who use to take us weekly to the library, would go to the new section of recent arrivals and pick 6 of the biggest books he could find. I’m not kidding. It didn’t matter what they were. Non-fiction, fiction, historical, or sci-fi. He’d read it all. It was his passion and love of reading that also spilled over in to us being taught at very early ages how to form our letters.

Of course, I was smitten. From the minute I realised I could make words with these strange looking letters and make sentences, like: the cat sat on the mat. I was creating my own stories and, when old enough, making them into little booklets with teeny tiny illustration in crayon, of course.

From that point on, I always wrote, at least that is when I wasn’t reading. And, despite my early choice of leaving home at 17 to join the military, I still managed to do not one, but 2 degrees (you know, because I loved writing) and, by a strange twist of fate, ended up working for over 25+ years in the print and publishing trade after leaving the military. A trade that fed my need to both read and to write.

All the while I worked in these trades, I wrote articles, create publications and e-zines, and even created full-size magazines, till print become difficult due to costs. At which point, I went online like so many. And the rest, they say, is history.

I ran two different websites curating fiction for both the sci-fi lover and for the discerning lesbian who wanted to read both good fiction, but also read reviews and interviews with the authors and publishers. I also curated two on-demand print quarterly magazines for both websites, which turned out to be an awful lot of work, but also, great fun to do at the time.

I haven’t stopped writing and have never looked back from that very early age after being encouraged by my parents to just do it


Footnote: At once point back in 2012, I calculated just how many words (roughly) I might have written over those intervening years, and shocked myself when it came out at over 2 million. A conservative estimate. Don’t ask me how many words I’ve written since then it’s probably a lot.


AMA #3

Today I thought to answer another of the #AMA questions I was asked last year.

“What’s the best music-related experience of your life so far?”

Narrowing my answer down to just one person or act is impossible given the sheer number of concerts I’ve been to over the course of a long life (so far). I could say the best was meeting, inadvertently, the Rolling Stones when I was about 7-8 years old, and getting my photo taken with them. Though it’s true I didn’t, at that age, get to go to their concert or see them live on stage. Though decades later, I did get to see them from afar on the Plains of Abraham here, in Quebec City.

Fast forward to my teenage years at high school, and as a bunch of pimply teens, my co-conspirators and I where just at the right age, at the right time, to be around just as a number of emerging and rising stars where still doing small venues in cities across the north of England. And so, I was lucky enough to go see, Elton John (1976), David Bowie (1973), and Kate Bush (1978) all doing concerts at the Liverpool Empire theatre back in the day.

Not only that, we got front row seats thanks to Janet Griffiths’ father who knew someone who worked in the box office. So that our little group of four were there, right up close and personal with our musical heroes of the day!

I mean, come on, how do you choose between those three stars? Each was amazing in their musical performance, and sent shivers down my spine. David Bowie doing his Ziggy Stardust tour, Elton John playing songs from his Captain Fantastic & The Brown Dirt Cowboy album, and Kate Bush ending her concert with Wuthering Heights.

I, of course, went on to see so many more great concerts, I remember an outstanding performance, in Germany, by Emerson, Lake and Palmer during the late 70s and another with the Moody Blues. So many great bands, so many great singers, so many great performances.

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Movies: War Machine (2026) ★★½

This movie was one long testosterone fuelled promo advert for the US Army Rangers, what with all the machismo and chest thumping, gruff voices, and lone-wolf attitudes I felt like I needed a shower afterwards. Over baked and undercooked, this one lacked enough ingredients to make it thoughtful, or even, interesting.

Lots of big bangs and explosions and not much else.


Mindful March: Day 14

Today’s reminder from the Mindful March initiative is:

‘Find ways to enjoy any chore or tasks that you do.’

I learned early on in life that chores came whatever your age. My mother, having two daughters, saw she could utilise two extra pairs of hands to do laundry, ironing, cleaning and any other household chore she thought to delegate. And thus, to make cleaning the toilet more palatable (given I had four brothers who’s aim was never accurate) I embraced music loudly, and cheerfully.

One, by loudly by playing music on the radio singing along, and later, when older and could afford it, on my own cheap record player. My sister and I would dance and take turns doing the ironing, that is, when she was at home and not working. It was the same with the vacuuming, music was always playing. 

Even now, when I need to do any household chore, on goes the radio before I even start. A house full of music is a joyful place. Try belting a Bat out of Hell loudly while vacuuming. Especially if you want to annoy the neighbours.

It was the same with task, as a kid, my turn to polish all our school shoes? I would sing to myself to get through the job as quickly as possible. I also did this with school exams, singing under my breath when in any stressed situation. 

And even more recently, when I had to go into hospital for cancer surgery last year. Yes, you guess it. Playing music and or singing to myself was a way to get through the ordeal. 

And you, what do you do?

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Doing the hustle ...

Inspired by Jim Mitchell’s post, I Really Hate My Dumb Job, in which he talks about the time he went to Hollywood and almost got a job on radio. I dug deep into my past life.

I had quite a few side gigs back in the day, especially when I was stationed in Germany during my stint in the military. Some of these gigs paid like waiting on tables at various Officer’s Mess shindigs, others we’re done for free for fun and to learn something new, or hang out with some cool people. 

One of these gigs was the on-base radio station. It was mostly run by a bunch of Americans who were on base with us Brits, those who had access to the right facilities and know-how at setting up the needed equipment. They had wrangled this cool gig somehow and both their Colonel and our Group Captain, the base commander, had agreed to it. 

I stumbled into it by way of making friends with Ken, a US army staff sergeant who ran the whole shebang, taking care of the staffing side and lockup. Ken was a man who loved to dance, and when I got invited to disco night by a friend at the American Bar on camp, I ended up spending most of the night dancing with and talking to, Ken. 

It wasn’t my iffy dancing skills that got me the gig with the ‘boss’. It was my voice. Yanks love a good British accent, and I had what Ken referred to as ‘a come to bed’ voice. I was asked if I would like to try out for an evening slot, and duly went along to meet the crew after a late shift. I hadn’t even changed out of my uniform into civvies, or gone for a late dinner, but instead, found myself talking into a microphone for a solid 2 hours.

You could say, I was hired on the spot. Though the truth was, no one was paid. Everyone involved did it for the love of music and DJ’ing. I should point out I never chose the music, or lined up the jingles, or had to worry about anything technical, they only wanted me for my sultry tones. 

It was me and the mike, and the listeners.

I often wondered if after my life in the military I should have skipped going on to civilian air traffic control, and gone straight into radio or, something more lucrative?

This is Alexandra, coming to you live from nine zero point five FM radio! 

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Going in search of...

I’m endlessly fascinated (not) by everyone talking about what search engines they use, from this one to that one, and paying this much or that much a month, week, minute, year. And I’m left asking myself just what the hell is everyone searching for?

I mean, really?

Is it hidden treasure, the lost city of the Incas/Aztecs, Eldorado, Amelia Earhart? What?

“Oh, I kept my searches down to 300 a month,” X says on social media, leaving me wondering what am I missing? Or more to the point, missing out on? Do I need 300+ searches of anything per month? Do I need a Kagi or a DuckDuckGo or even, dare I say it, Google?

What do these paid for subscription tools offer that Google doesn’t I ask myself, and why does everyone do so many searches a month? Maybe I’m missing out on buying into a goldmine or pearl fishery, or asking what the latest AI initiative is? I’m damned if I know why everyone’s got so many questions.

Personally, I use people as my search engine of choice, they’re far more easily accessible, fun, free, and usually yields more accurate, if not, amusing results at the end of the day. 

And let’s face it, does no one go to the library anymore, other than university students? Is it online search engine that killed the library and people’s ability to go manually searching for answers?

I guess the answer is to go ask some AI client or chatbot …

Or maybe, I’ll just go read a book.

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